Advertisement

Love & Sex
Poll

Most Popular
Articles

Viewed

Recommended

Commented

Sexting Not Just for Kids

Plenty of older adults send racy messages on their cellphones — but it's usually a private matter

  • Print
  • Bookmark

The injudicious use of a cellphone by former New York Rep. Anthony Weiner has turned the spotlight on sexting — a practice typically associated with teenagers. But the reality is that more and more of the 50-plus set, both single and married, routinely use text messaging to send tantalizing pictures and provocative words to their partner, according to relationship experts.

See also: 8 ways to find love online.

Most of them are not sexting in the highly public — and, as he acknowledged, "inappropriate" — way that Weiner has admitted to doing. Rather, they are using it as a fun, easy and usually harmless way to spice up their sex.

Relationship coach Suzanne Blake has seen and heard it all when it comes to sexting, including a wife who enjoys sexting her husband while he's traveling on business, telling (and showing) him what he's missing at home. While this may surprise some, Blake's not surprised at all.

"It's a misnomer that the biological changes of aging have to lead to a decrease in sexuality and sexual experience," she says.

Whether they're single and casually dating, married, or in long-term relationships, "Boomers want sexual activity," Blake explains. "They want to flirt. It makes them feel lively and young."

Next: Text away your inhibitions. »

  • Print
  • Bookmark

From The
Experts

Add a Little Sizzle to Your Sex Life

Here are some top picks for your bedroom bookshelf. read

Dr. Pepper Schwartz

Tell Us WhatYou Think

Please leave your comment below.

You must be signed in to comment.

Sign In | Register

More comments »

Relationships
Quizzes

Relationships Trivia quiz AARP-a senior couple hugs warmly

What is Your Love IQ?

Test your knowledge about what's myth and what's fact in 50+ relationships. Do

Are You Savvy About Sex After 50?

Take our quiz and then compare scores with your partner to see who comes out on top. Do

300_line

Discounts & Benefits

Teleflora fall flowers Classic Cornucopia

Members receive 20% discount on all arrangements from Teleflora.

Stretching on an exercise ball at home

Members receive up to 10% off exercise equipment at Smooth Fitness.

MGM Grand Hotel and Casino Las Vegas

Members receive 10% off room rates on select days with advance reservations at MGM Resorts.

Member Benefits

Members receive exclusive member benefits & affect social change. Join Today

Being Social

Featured
Groups

Single & Mingle

Cruise on over and meet a diverse and active group of sophisticated singles. Join

Love and Romance

Whether you're in a relationship or looking for one, share your ideas and thoughts with other romantics. Join