Choosing a Place to Call Home

Location

• Is it in a safe neighborhood?
• Is it located near shops, doctors’ offices, places of worship and social contacts?
• Is it reasonably close to adult children's homes?
• Is public or private transportation easily accessible?

Policies

• Are there restrictions on behavior such as smoking and drinking alcohol?
• Are pets allowed?
• Are guests, including overnighters, welcome?
• Are there formal visiting hours?
• How much flexibility is there for mealtimes?
• In a shared setting, how are responsibilities determined?
• How does management handle rate increases and discharge policies?

Moving In With Family

• Will this move cause or solve family problems?
• If a parent and child are considering living together, can they and the others living in the house get along?
• Is the space adequate?
• Is the house equipped for the older adult?
• Can you give the parent the attention she deserves?
• Are your lifestyles compatible?
• What are the advantages and disadvantages for all those involved?
• Are you comfortable with this serious commitment and reasonably sure it will work?