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My family is very close. We have always called ourselves a little tribe. My grandmother has Alzheimers and lung cancer. She is also in her mid 80's. She is very weak and is in the latter stages of Alzheimers. My Aunt has been taking care of her with the help of a nurse for a few hours. My Aunt had a stroke a few months ago and her heart is failing. They just put my grandmother into a resting home and she is still aware enough to be furious. They put her in th resting home because she falls a lot and needs professional attention. My mother, aunt and uncle (her 3 children) are pained over what to do. Also, my uncle is dying of lung cancer...so he states his opinion, but my mother and my aunt are pretty much handling it. They are all heartsick at their dilemma. Keep her there where she is safer, but miserable and feels betrayed and not eating, or take her home, where my aunt will get back to the schedule and really stress herself out, which is very dangerous for her? My aunt lives around the corner from my grandmother and my mom lives an hour way. After a few days, they want to take her out of the home. What to do?