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In Response to RE: What do you wish you knew WHEN YOU FIRST STARTED CAREGIVING that you know now? by CharliA54 Yes, and when it is a "husband" rather than your father who becomes the little child, it's even worse. My husband gets angry when I make him take his meds, when I remind him to take a shower or shave or comb his hair (he never does that any more). He wants to be home all the time - doesn't even enjoy going to see our childen and grandchildren - and would like to have me there with him all the time, too! I get very resentful and wonder what has happened to my love. This dementia has to be the most cruel disease there is!!