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I am brand new to this post. I tried another caregiver blog on the internet, but as soon as I told my feelings, I was rebuked. I am 60 and I am still working full time, my husband who is bi-polar and my son, 25, who has high-functioning autism and I are all livng together. Mother, who is now 93, is at a board and care home close to me.Thank God, Dad who passed in '98 totally took care of her financial well-being at least until a few more months.But my anxiety is over how I resent her needing so much from me, and 2 brothers who live out of town "get away" with just seeing her every 3 months. Everytime I see her, she is critical of me and makes me feel small again. It has gotten so bad, that my husband has to come with me to visit her so she will not get on my case as when she does when I visit her alone.My husband who had prostate surgery in 2009 has had a recurrance and I just don't know anymore how to cope.Thank you for listening.