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Today is finally the preliminary hearing. Had one scheduled back in July but my soon to be ex's lawyer postponed it until now.
Found neither of us need to attend, that the Judge would not ask us any questions, only the lawyers, to see how negotiations are coming along so he can set the date for the trial.
While I'm somewhat relieved that I don't need to attend, I also feel like something else has been taken out of my control. Who am I kidding, my whole life has been taken out of my control ever since my soon to be ex made the decision to be unfaithful and lie to me.
Been dealing with a lot of emotions over the last week. Some of them due to my lawyer not being prepared, some from my ex asking where paperwork was from my lawyer and some, just because I realize this is the true beginning of the end.
Anyone have any suggestions as to how to cope over the next 24-48 hrs?