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My mother-in-law died the day before my divorce became final (after 30 years of marriage). In the last weeks of her life, she said that she did not wish me to attend her funeral. My ex-husband told our 16 yr-old & 24 yr-old of this. I still sent flowers for this woman who despite having and expressing strong opinions, was a solid grandmother to my kids and mother-in-law to me. Not only was it hard not to have the funeral etc for my grief, but I lost the opportunity to connect with nieces & nephews I have not seen in years-almost all of whom knew me as their aunt for their whole lives. I feel that this situation broke those ties forever and I am so sad. Any advice, insights?