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Only ladies here?
My problem (I'm a guy) is that intimacy was denied to me, no sleeping together, etc. a while back, so I have to look elsewhere. We tried therapy once and she lost interest quickly as soon as the therapist started asking us to weigh each other's sides -equally-. Now, I am staying in the marriage until the youngest child is grown, which will be a few more years. We can treat each other like siblings mostly, at a distance. I believe she is not interested in sex anymore, just more spiritual relationships, which might be partly my fault but I'm always ready to try again, but that won't happen as far as I can tell.
I can ask for therapy again before divorce and seperation but I think she will refuse it again. Any advice here? Just thought I'd reach out a little bit. Good to see this discussion!
It's strange how guys are invariably to blame, or seem to be.