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Sorry for the problems, but firefox would not allow me to type here. My wife told me 10 years ago that she could not love me as a husband anymore. I caught her in an affair and loved her too much to think she couldn't return the love. Well, the result is now tearing me apart. I don't know how to take life - she left 6 months ago and I feel terrible. I have taken out a mortgage so she has her own house, I have done everything to show her how I feel and told her too. But she is relentless in her rejection of me. I am certain at this point that there is someone else in her life - many people have happily told me so! I cannot imagine facing the holidays and long nights alone. I had such plans for our retirement years and now thay have turned to fluff and phooey. Her church supports her and I find I have only my very close family but they are miles away and have their own lives. I do not want to burden them with their father's problems. The lonliness is so painful at night and when I am not busy during the day. Oh well, sorry to bore you all with my problems, thank you, Lauren (a man).
Lauren, you are not alone in your feelings of lonliness. You are not a problem to the rest of us...you are deeply hurt like all the rest of us in the group.
Keep in touch with some people in the group...get into a divorce support group in your area.