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Man I wish I could tell you that I'd never heard of anyone using that tired saw about monogamy being "abnormal" but I can't. Believe it or not, married men have tried it to get women (yes, including me) to indulge in an affair with them behind their wife's back. It's almost as tired as "my wife just doesn't understand me" and "we have an 'open' marriage". Still, it certainly goes along with his other manipulative attempts. Good for you for putting your foot down. You'll make it. Sure, there are hard days ahead, but you'll emerge on the other side and getting shut of such abuse will only lighten your load in the long run. Sounds like he was "gaslighting" you.