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In Response to Still Hurting by sallyjoq
Yes, i'm still hurting. I've moved on, was quite happy. No significant other and not interested at this point. However, i still have anger and resentment and some various other feelings about him and his family.
They are prospering financially and i'm struggling. He stopped paying my alimony after over four years. Haven't gotten alimony since january 2010. Court battle now , He is doing very well financially i'm sure .
I think that after a marriage of 36 plus years and years before that of being together, it is only natural i feel some of the feelings i am. As you and many others can attest to.
Does it every stop? I don't think so. Unfortunately, it is part of the process. They say what goes around, comes around. I'm not totally sure i agree with that, but i'm hoping that is true. In my case, so far some of what went around, came back around but not completely and not to the extent i would like it to. And now I'm fighting this alimony battle.
It is what it is and we have to adjust and accept. Hard as it may be, it has to be that way.
Good luck to all of us. !!!!!!