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In Response to RE: Would you take him/her back? by sallyjoq
Thank you for the welcome!
Thought perhaps some of the other information my counselor imparted to me might be of interest and help to others.
She told me that what happened to me was like being hit by a Mac truck. It's just that there weren't any physical injuries that could be seen, only emotional injuries, but just as serious. That it would take me as long to get over the emotional injuries as it would any physical injuries I would have received had I truly been hit by a Mac truck.
I don't know about others here, but I know I was very hard on myself for not being able to handle what had happened. I have always been a very strong, independent person. Able to handle most anything that came my way. I felt so weak physically and mentally after this happened. It took me a good 4 months to be able to smile again.
Thought I'd share the first thing that I smiled at. A joke that I received via email about 4 months after my soon to be former husband told me of his infidelity and told me he wanted "out".
The men on here may not find this as funny, but might I suggest all men change it to wife where husband is.
40 years of marriage..
A married couple in their early 60s was celebrating their 40th wedding anniversary in a quiet, romantic little restaurant.
Suddenly, a tiny yet beautiful fairy appeared on their table. She said, 'For being such an exemplary married couple and for being loving to each other for all this time, I will grant you each a wish.'
The wife answered, 'Oh, I want to travel around the world with my darling husband.
The fairy waved her magic wand and - poof! - two tickets for the Queen Mary II appeared in her hands.
The husband thought for a moment: 'Well, this is all very romantic, but an opportunity like this will never come again. I'm sorry my love, but my wish is to have a wife 30 years younger than me.
The wife, and the fairy, were deeply disappointed, but a wish is a wish. So the fairy waved her magic wand and poof!...the husband became 92 years old.