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Would I take him back? Not only no but hell no. I'm not angry, I don't hate him, I still care for him as a human being and want him to be happy. But I discovered over the years that he's a good man, I'm a good woman, but we're very bad for each other. That hasn't changed. I wasn't the wife he wanted and he wasn't the husband I needed--no shame either way. His cheating--well he doesn't get a free pass on that. But nonetheless, we'd make each other miserable even if we were forever faithful. If he were the person I thought he was when I was 20 or even 30, I'd probably say "yes"--if *I* were the same person he thought I was at 20 or 30 or even the person I really was at that age. He's not/we're not. Nuff said.