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The big day is finally here.
Friday is the day in court for the final decree. The end of a 40 year marriage. Soon to be ex has been really nice via email as of late. Decided today that he's probably trying to get me off guard so he can pull something in court. Don't know why I would think such a thing other than the fact that he's been a jerk for the last 11 months and he cheated on and lied to me for 10 months prior to that.
Perhaps the fact that when he was here with our Son, bringing some of my motorcycle up from our winter home, he had the nerve to try to get money out of the joint account to pay for the use of his mistresses truck that he had told me prior was borrowed from a "friend". Claiming he hadn't asked "him" how much he would want for the use of it.
When I questioned him as to who he had managed to borrow the truck from, he had to admit to me it was his mistresses ex husbands truck. Though this man lives in Ecuador where they were from, and their divorce was final.
He then had the nerve to say, well, at least I told you the truth, I could have said it was anyone. Like he deserved a gold star for finally telling me the truth.
Anyhow, I have now prepared myself for the possibility he and/or his lawyer plan to try something in court and I will be ready for any shenanigans.
Hopefully I'll be pleasantly surprised and he really will be nice, but I figure it's best to be prepared for the worst case scenario and then have something good happen instead.
A dear friend is going to accompany me to court. She has been there for me throughout this terrible ordeal.
Anyone who wants to do so, I would appreciate more prayers that I get through this event with as little emotion as is possible.