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Hi. I just joined the group. I have a question for yawl out there (I can say "yawl" because I'm from South West Missouri right in the corner bordering Arkansas, Oklahoma and Kansas. Anyway....here's the question and I know there is no right or wrong answer but it seems to me that with each year I get older (I'm 51) the chances of getting re-married are less and less even though I'm in a good relationship with a good man and before I met him I was in a pretty good relationship with a pretty good man. I've been divorced about 6 years now from my second husband and was married nearly all my life from the time I was 17. Being single is SO VERY DIFFERENT!!! There are days I hate it and days that aren't so bad, and even a few days that I like it but overall I know that I am meant to be married. I see older people than myself getting remarried and they seem happy and in love but it just seems like the people my age, especially the men, have some fear or at least lack of desire to get remarried. Can anyone out there tell me why? Thanks, Kathy
I am new in here though I just have to add my comments. I have been divorced for almost ten years. At first I wished to be involved with someone and later I did receive that wish. Four years after that I got a chance to examine that relationship in hindsight. Now four years later and alone for all that time I have discovered that i am comfortable where I am. Lonely sometimes? Absolutely but I simply live it up to fate. I date once in a while and have placed a singles ad on one site but other than that I leave it up to fate. A great many women that I have met are done with a complex relationships especially marriage. I don't blame them for many were hurt and that hurt is imprinted their lives. I feel women have other women for support but that a lot of men cannot live without a woman. Me, I can live successfully on my own and perhaps I will meet that woman and she will know that though I can operate on my own she will have met a counterpart that desires her for individuality.