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i'm single but living in the uk and partly in Germany i've been divorced now for near on four years.
I would say i'm alone but not lonely i dont want to change my life, i'm very happy but it would be nice to share it with someone.
i do work and live very remotely in a cottage on the south coast of the uk the remotness doesnt bother me but i know it does alot of people.
on the other scale i have a village apartment in Germany i did meet a german girl and was very fond of her and we was talking of a long term relationship with her and her daughter.
but she was hiding a secret she was alcholholic and i found it very difficult to handle this i tried believe me i really tried, it was the abuse she used to give me and her daughter i couldnt handle and we just drifted apart.
I have tried several sites but they seem to be full of scammers,
I love aarp because the people here are great and friendly and some great groups.
The thing i miss most is christmas and new years eve i do have friends over and my son visits me but its not the same as having a partner to share these times with.
Maybe one day i will meet that someone.
Hi Mike and welcome. There are so many wonderful people in these AARP groups.
Alcoholism is a rough way to live for everyone involved. My ex had been sober when we got together, then went back out. It was a nightmare I just couldn't live with. I didn't stop loving him, but he chose the booze and I am single again.
It is fortunate that you have the setup that you do between the uk and Germany. Of course it doesn't keep you warm at night or hug you when you need one. Good to meet you.