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I was married for 27 yrs. I have 5 children and 13 grandchildren. For 30 yrs. of my life I was with one man and now we have separated and I live alone with my 14yr old grand son. This why I ask the question.s it normal to not want to be with a man. I see my friends with their mates and I don't even feel anything. I dated a younger man one time and it didn't work so now nothing. Can someone please tell me anm I crazy.
I don't think you are crazy at all. I live alone and love it. I don't have to do anything I don't feel like doing, and I come and go as I please.
When I first got my own place, I was a little scared as I had NEVER been completely alone. But I grew to like it. I have two male friends that I "hang" out with, as well as my female friends.
I too look at my friends with mates, and to be honest, I see a lot of heartache and problems. When a friend would complain about their husbands/mates I would tell them "you are lucky in this stage of life that you have someone, when he's not there you will wish he were". Well, as much as I miss my late husband, I still would not get married again, or have a live in. I became too independent. Good luck.