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Our 27 year old daughter has taken our rights to visit with our grandchildren. We would have our oldest grandson sometime for a week or more. We have never had our granddaughter in our home overnight, but we would watcher at my mothers house. Our Daughter had her son when she was 17 and a half she lived with us . We help take care of and supported her and the baby, then she started taking meth again she became very abusive to us. She would leave for days at a time then come home with some guy she had pick up. We did everything we could for our grandson,. Then one day she got mad and came ranting and raving out of her bedroom screaming that we could have the f*****g kid and her f*****g broke down truck and she was out of here. Then she went to jail and we took care of our grandson. Again but before she when to jail she had gotten pregnant again, our grandson was 41/2. When she got out of jail she went to live with my parents, my father died 5 months after my daughter moved in with them. Then she stayed with my mother who didn’t believe us about the things that she was doing here. About 3 months after her daughter was born she began the ranting and raving again. She screamed at my beautiful granddaughter and grandson calling them horrible names. I got mad and told her I never want to hear her call her son and daughters those horrible names. F*****g bastards and F*****g Bi*** and the C word to my granddaughter who had no idea why she was talk too this way.. This is just a little of what was going on
She was on house arrest while she carried her daughter.. She is on 5 years of probation for the thing she has done. But she will not take the responsible for the things she has done.
Now she has decided that it is all her fathers fault. She told my husband’s mother that we were teaching her son to lie and that is why she didn’t want us to see him, then she said that we were spoiling him, and last but not least she did not want him around us because she didn’t want him exposed to the abuses she went through as a child with us. So now we are not able to see our grandchildren any more. She has even convents my 81 yr old mother that my husband of 28 years did beat and verbaly attack her.. She wants me to get a divorce from the man who has taken care of me ,her and her older brother for 28 years. Our son had tried to tell people she is lying. But my own mother hates my husband and will not listen to use at all.. My husband and I are in so much heartache and pain that we are beside ourselves. I have been thinking of taking her to court and get visitation righs as we live in Calif. and they have grandprarents laws. I was wondering if anyone else has done this before?