This forum post is hidden because you have chosen to ignore jcofla. Show Details
This forum post is hidden because you have submitted an abuse report against it. Show Details
In Response to Re: WOULD YOU CONSIDER COHABITATING?:
...in the case you cited, we don't know what property she might have brought with her, or how long they'd been together. While his children might be behaving in an unconscionable fashion, there might be some justification if he owned all of it before she moved in.
Posted by ThoseEyes
That is absolute correct. There ARE two sides to every story and I’m not judging the man’s family. I cited the situation to point out there could be future problems. I was 30 when I got married. Prior to that I had no desire to have a live-in relationship and was fortunate enough to be financially able to always have my own place. Therefore I never lived with anyone prior to my marriage. But I didn’t ever judge others who did because, despite my religious upbringing, I found nothing wrong with it. Since my becoming a widower I still have no desire, even if I WERE in a loving relationship to cohabitate.