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I've had 3 dates with 3 different men in the last couple of months. Each date was fun with great conversations, laughing, smiling, touching hands, holding hands, all very good dates. At the end of the third date (with each one) they hug me and kiss me passionately when we say goodnight. Then they send me an email or call me and tell me they don't feel interested in pursuing a relationship with me. I'm left a little hurt and disappointed because the signals they gave me during our dates were positive. I'm not acting sexy or coming on to any of these men. But I need to know why this is happening. One told me he found me very attractive and realized he wanted sex with me, which he felt wasn't appropriate because he didn't have feelings for me. At least they're all considerate enough to let me know. Is this just men feeling lust and I'm perceiving it wrong? What can I do differently to change this pattern?