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In Response to Re: Intimacy:
Hello sorry to hear you had a hard time in your past.
As a guy I don't understand other guys myself. And yes we all what certain things, but when it comes
to a lady most important thing is talking, getting to know each other, passion, holding hands and cooking
for the lady. Bring home some flowers like Roses at times. Sit discuss how your day was. etc.
Definitely, there was a lack of intimacy in my 25 year marriage. It's difficult, if not impossible, to warm to someone in bed when they are mean to you the rest of the time. I was always walking on egg shells around him. Because of his clueless nature, the ex probably still doesn't "get" why I did not want sex with him.
What of all the people that share intimacy but don't have a relationship? The whole "friends with bennies" idea has really caught on. That does not work for me, I want intimacy within the relationship. I keep meeting these men who just want to get into my panties.
Posted by roxeli