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"never give up, never surrender"
I waited longer before marriage#3 and it was disastrous (lasted less than 2 years), then I thought I was done ("three strikes, you're out!") But #4 is the reward for all my hard times. My sweet baby love, my husband, is the loving husband I never had before. I never knew before what it was like when the one you love, loves you back.
so there is a happy ending, eventually
I have been told this before and I have seen it once or twice with people I know. I just fear the act of never knowing whether there will be a next time for abuse or a rejection. I have been deeply in love with one man for many many years and that didn't work out. The marriage was a rebound and I married because I didn't want to have to go live with my parents again. It was an easy way out that turned out to be a bad idea. I did get all 3 of my kids from the marriage but when we divorced they lost the only father they would know. He decided they had divorced him too. i most definitely would not marry while the kids were still home. I still have a 17 yr old granddaughter at home and after a very very poor choice in boyfriends that ended in abuse to 2 of my kids, I could never subject them again. If by some small twist of fate I do have someone in my life again, I will indeed feel blessed but he will have to be a man who will love me unconditionally.And that my kids and grandkids are comfortable around.