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In Response to caring for spouse by bettyr
Very glad you found an Adult Day program that seems to be a good fit. Seems like several other folks found these programs to help their loved one. If you haven't looked into the Veteran Administration's financial help, i hope you do, if he's a veteran.
Another computer option besides the Wii and the laptop is the ipad. There's a charming 2 minute video about a 100 year old woman who tries out an ipad and gets a real kick out of it. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ndkIP7ec3O8 The cheapest is $500 which is about as cheap as the cheapest laptop, and all you need is a wi fi connection to the internet to get online. But the games and piano-playing gizmos ad infinitum that you can down load are really entertaining. I hope he'd find it entertaining, too.
What other supports do you have for you? Are there other family members around to give you a break? A faith community to help out once in a while? How are you taking care of yourself?
Thanks so much for sharing,