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I'd like to "encourage" my Mom to start de-cluttering, going through her stuff and culling out what she no longer needs or wants. I don't know how to start this conversation because I am so frustrated, angry, and overwhelmed by the amount of stuff there is simply from living in the same place for over 30 years. She had a bad fall last year, and we talked about having a live-in companion when she got home from rehab. In preparation for this, I had to clean out and re-organize an extra bedroom. This turned out to be blessing in disguise because at least it got the ball rolling because we got rid of a lot of stuff, but there's still so much left to go through elsewhere. I am angry that she let it get like this, and angry with myself for letting it go too. I keep dropping hints, like how I've been going through my house and de-cluttering. I'm afraid to have a direct discussion because I don't think I can do it without all my anger and frustration coming through. Any suggestions on how to start this conversation?