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I can only tell you that I have been there and that I know how traumatic this is. The cold, impersonal feeling you get from her is because this is the wall she is building around her to stop any warm and fuzzy feelings she still might have.
You aren't ranting; you are just responding in a normal way to this awful "announcement".
You have a long, hard road ahead of you. But, PLEASE understand that there have been SO many of us who have traveled that same road and that we can assure you that you WILL get through this.
Hang on to your faith, your friends, your family. Use them to guide you; to give you comfort. You are NEVER alone.
Please feel free to continue your postings to this sight. Maybe your questions and concerns can be answered or at least adressed and understood by those of us who have been through this before.
My prayers are with you tonight.
After 10yrs and 7mos of marriage, my wife informs me she wants a a divorc, I am not sure how to act, respond, feel after hearing her revelation. It feels very sterile, very cold very antispetic/in personal (if that is the right analogy). That is why I titled this thread that way.
Kind of numb, angry, confused. Sorry for the rant!
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