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Half way thru divorce i started searching for a man, i have never liked being alone , i was missing the cuddling, kissing etc i dated some if you call it that but all i am finding is nasty, sex craved men in my age bracket or around it. i AM 59. Looking at them i would say they are just dirty old men to me. Now it is 2 yrs and i have given up on finding the right guy. Lets just say i am done searching. I am not going to get involved with another nasty again. I would rather be alone the rest of my life than go thru what i did in my 35 yr marriage. I really do not understand men in my age bracket. Most of the woman around my age i know hate men because of the way they have been treated on dates etc. I really thought after the divorce things would be easier but i have found it very hard finding the right person for a relationship. I am wondering if all the good nice men are taken.
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Just wondering how many of you have been able to establish another love-relationship since your divorce?
I didn't think that I would ever even want to date somebody else after my X left me, but I was wrong. I do have a man in my life right now and he is very good to me. BUT...this will never be anywhere near the deep relationship I had with my X.
I have grown independent because I had to learn to pretty quickly after 43 years of marriage. I'm used to being alone and it's not so bad. I like to make my own decisions. I enjoy the companionship of other friends, as well.
We both live in a condo building; his condo is just down the hall from me. He moved here from about 45 miles away to be close to me.
It would seem like an ideal situation, but all is not perfect. I find myself being impatient with him and worry that he is too dependant upon me for my time.
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