This forum post is hidden because you have chosen to ignore cycle3. Show Details
This forum post is hidden because you have submitted an abuse report against it. Show Details
I am one of the minority who has discovered a wife of 40 plus years has been having an affair for the last 10. She senses I know but we haven't had the frank dealing with the issue hed on discussion.
She developed a an intense sexual relationship with a person who after four or five years moved to the east coast. They have continued the relaioship via email, face time, periodic trips east for hookups under the guise of "business" trips. My guess is the only obstacle for my wife splitting for him is his apparent resistance to ending his own marriage.
On the surface we are still "best friends" but only friends. Seems her sexual interest in her lover precludes me. I've decided the time is right to quit looking the other way & hoping it goes away, but can't seem to find the best way to put it out in the open. If it all goes to hell it will be equallydevastating for our three grown sons & their families, grandchilren, etc.
I'm sure there's a lot of people that can offer some sgae guidance for me here.