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Did you stay too long?
I did, was married for 33 years...most of my adult life.
Attended counciling alone ten years before the marriage ended.
When divorce was mention at that time, I outright rejected the thought.
Ten years later, I again went for councilling, after ten months I was able to express I wanted a divorce...to my surprise my council said " I wondered when you would be able to verbalize it" I was sure I must be crazy... after 33years!!!
She told me at that time (5 years ago) that it was very common in her practice to have women to end a long term marriage after giving it much thought, prayer & councilling.
Know I stayed a couple of years too long, really maybe ten years....
What is your experience?
Sending good thoughts and good wishes to all of you.