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The house being a log home, which was a dream of mine for many years even before knowing her. She found the home, she agreed to buy home out right, which the house we were living in was mine, and would have been paid off in July 2011, I agreed to the purchase, but she did write a check for the house, then she stated that her financial advisor told her to mortgage the houe in her name only for tax purposes. The house was mortgaged in her name only, but house Warranty Deed is in both names. I have ended up with the House, after she and her son, lived in for a very short time then moving out, not allowing me to have the house. The house was agreed to become mine upon getting house refinanced in to may name only. During the 1 1/2 years, I found that she did not pay the Federal and State Taxes, both were in process of filing leins against the house $12,500.00, which I came up with money to pay, the find that everything since the marriage in her life was a lie, loosing jobs due to being fired, unable to pay bills, then find out that she was getting $4,100.00 a month from diversified funds account from inheritance, she states that she could no live on $4,100.00. There is a lot more to this Story Book Love turning into the Nightmare from Hell. The woman has become a lying, sneaking, theiving and vindicative toward me, and going into Church (same Church), putting on an air of totally different than she ever did before the divorce and prior years of the marriage. I know this is long Post question. My overall problem now is that due to the delays in getting the divorce over with resulted in me becoming indebted in due to the none payment of Taxes, Mortgage payments, and trying to get house out of her name, so that I can repair and put up for sale to get out of debt. I have told my pastor that Forgiveness should be in my heart, but due to the ways the X-wife has treated me, and putting on an air to church friends and members, I can not forgive, her as she is to me nothing but a liar, sneaking thief, and has a very vindictive toward me for something that I do not know what I did, but she destroyed this marriage, I did not. Has anyone ever been in this situation and recovered from the indebtness, total hate, and totally not being able to ever trust another woman. One thing else is that her family members had always told me that " I was the best thing that ever happened to her". I would like to tell her family the true things she has done to this marriage and our lives, and being a very distrustful person!!