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Your response makes a lot of sense when applied during childbearing/rearing years. In today's society, when a marriage is expected to last much longer than ever existed in early human society, it doesn't make as much sense. There has to be a mutual friendship and partnership if anyone can expect marriages to last for 50 plus years. Obviously, none of us managed to have that kind of relationship.
Friends do not cheat each other, nor do they treat them with contempt. Cultural values and mores have influences on human beings beyond what nature originally created for them.
If humans hadn't evolved, at least a little, men would still be bashing the heads of male rivals for female attention. I admit, some "preening" behavior still exists with members of both sexes, but society has curbed some of the more animalistic behaviors.