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i still have not found any good men even to be friends closeby after 2 yrs but have decided to give up on finding anyone any more than friends anyway since i do not want to be someones maid or used the way i was during the marriage. Being alone is lonely but not having someone to make me do things have been releaving and so freeing of my spirit. I might consider dating but getting serious just might be out for me now. My biggest problem now is just finding myself after so many yrs doing for everyone else and not doing for myself that i have lost so much of who i really am. I had put all my interest and life on the backburner for all the jerks in my family. Well now they are gone and now i can fend for myself for once. First time being alone and it was frighten at first but starting to really like it now. I know if someone comes along later i might consider more but will never go back to the life i had before when i was married. I will never let anyone disrespect me again period.