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I have been raising my 4 grandchildren for over 2 years. They are now 3, 5, 8, 9. I am a widow and work full time. This past year my son (their uncle) came home to give me a hand, so it has been better. Their mother has been working all this time to get to a point where she could get the children back and support them. She now wants to take the 2 youngest back with her and hope to get the other two in a couple of years. I have hoped for this the whole time because I think children should be with their mother but I am really scared they won't be taken care of the way I would. She has another baby and lives with its father. He has been to my home many times and is a good guy. I am afraid he will not accept the children as I think he should. He has never had children before. Am I being oversensitive? What should I expect or require??