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My daughter, Mother of 3 murdered 7/12/09 and prior to then they either lived with me or witin 5 minutes, dysfunctional marriage & she finally divorced October 2008. For over 16 months not one family member of Dad's called, sent a card, NOTHING! My daughter survived a bilateral Pulmonary Embolism after birth of 3rd child & months in the hospital 2008. I raised newborn, 4 yr old son & 7 yr old daughter 24/7 with NO HELP! DCFS was involved due to Father had a Search Warrant at home 2 days after daughter home 1st time from hospital due to robbery he made & they found Crack Cocaine. My daughter middle of night huddled in bed with all 4 crying "Mom, HURRY & GET HERE THEY ARE TAKING MY KIDS"! OMG, 5 MINUTES WAS THERE! They did background on me & let the 4 of them leave with me, THANK GOD! I was named Guardian & daughter could live with us. Order of Protection on all 4 for Dad & broke many times, we both had death threats (which DCFS Ignored after reading themselves)! My daughter had a breakdown & went inpatient to deal with Pulmonary embolism, WHY she was with an abusive man & yes she did try cocaine with her husband too, During this time Dad dealt with Court, felonies & on Probation and his Parents made him live with them, no car, drove him everywhere since they knew the system & what to do. The Case Worker was a rookie & during this time (WHILE I WAS RAISING KIDS W/NO HELP) became personal friends w/ his family & the Master Mind of the family elder sister. I BEGGED FOR THE FAMILY TO BE INVOLVED FOR VISITS & FINALLY I LIED MY MOTHER ILL & THE SISTER FINALLY TOOK THEM FEW DAYS). I needed a breather & felt they should see other side of family. THE GREATEST REGRET I MADE!!! BY THE END OF THOSE FEW DAYS SISTER HAD WORKERS PERSONAL TELE# & STARTED MAKING FALSE STATEMENTS! Dad at this time is starting to look like "The Good Parent". The Worker ignored everything sent to him on my daughter. After 3 months she was strong, vibrant & ONE advocate held our hands since she knew what was happening & advised us & we listened with ONE mistake! I asked for kids when school was out to spend a week or 2 with the family AND THE WORKER FOUND THE OPPORTUNITY TO WRITE A REPORT TO TAKE THE KIDS! I HAD APPEAL AND WON!!!!! One week later we were advised to meet to work with the families & I walked into "THE KIDS DONT WANT TO SEE YOU & FORGET THE HEARING" I WAS DEVASTATED! THEN MY DAUGHTE MURDERED (WORSE DAY OF MY LIFE & FOREVER) & THE FAMILY DICTATED THAT I COULD NOT BE PRESENT WHEN THEY WENT TO FUNERAL! YES, MY DAUGHTERS! After they lost their Mother & Grandmother the "Sister" made false abuse calls to keep me from children (I was too close & the children were not adjusting). ALL UNFOUNDED & WITHIN 2 MONTHS OF LOSS THEY WERE PUT THROUGH HORRIBLE THINGS FROM FALSE CLAIMS). Even the Supervisor (have in writing) said they were warned to stop & I had grounds for lawsuit! TRY TO FIND AN ATTORNEY TO HELP WITHOUT THOUSANDS OF DOLLARS!? Finally my Grandkids who did not want to see me had a "Supervised visit" & ALL 3 CAME RUNNING, SCREAMING & CRYING "GRANDMA"!!!! They asked when do we get to come home? The SUPERVISOR PRESENT TOLD ME DO NOT STOP FIGHTING TO SEE KIDS! He witnessed the "scared kids"! Now over 2 years later I have received messages to help my grandkids & they are NOT with Dad, except the oldest now 11 ALONE WITH DAD & I AM SCARED FOR HER! The younger 2 are hidden!Dad whom never supported family collecting Social Security, State Aid, Medical, Food & being paid to go to School!? NO GRANDPARENTS RIGHTS? THEY ARE NOT WITH THEIR FATHER! MY COMPUTER HACKED BLOCKING ME & HAVE HAD OTHERS INVESTIGATE TOO & I am finally forced to play their game & those kids need me & our family too! The State "what a joke" Dad a criminal & has all RIGHTS!? DOESNT HAVE KIDS? A SISTER THINKS SHE HAS THEM! NO, MATERNAL GRANDMOTHER NEXT IN LINE! Grief, days I cannot believe I am surviving! My reason for getting up everyday is to be in my Grandchildrens lives & WILL NOT STOP! After I raised them with my daughter, NO HELP, Church, School, Teachers wrote letters the State says "Criminal Dad can do what he wants & WE ARE EVEN GOING TO REWARD HIM & PAY FOR EVERYTHING! It has been 17 months since I have known ANYTHING ON THEIR CARE & no one will tell us anything! I am so afraid for them! My 11 yr old made contact with her 12 yr old cousin stating she misses us so bad! Dad found it & BLOCKED HER & HIS "SISTER" SCREENS EVERYTHING! I HAVE EMAILS SHE SENT PRETENDING TO BE MY GRANDDAUGHTER & FINALLY HAD TO BLOCK HER AS I KNEW THEY WERE NOT FROM GRANDDAUGHTER! PLEASE, PLEASE, PLEASE ANYONE KNOW HOW I CAN FIND OUT WHERE THEY ARE & HOW THEY ARE? IS THIS SS FRAUD WHEN HE DOESNT HAVE THEM? I WILL DO WHATEVER I HAVE TO NOW & EXHAUSTED BEGGING AND PLEADING! LETTERS TO EVERYONE & IGNORED! THE LAST MESSAGE SENT FROM A OUTSIDE FAMILY MEMBER STATED "YOU NEED TO GET THE KIDS"! OMG, HELP!