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Do You Have a Valentine?

posted at February 11, 2012 11:58 AM EST
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First: September 16, 2011
Last: May 23, 2013
Valentine's Day is such fun, if you have a Valentine! Or , you remember one from the past.

"The Silent Lover" by Walter Raleigh

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Passions are likened best to floods and streams:
The shallow murmur, but the deep are dumb;
So, when affections yield discourse, it seems
The bottom is but shallow whence they come.
They that are rich in words, in words discover
That they are poor in that which makes a lover.

II

Wrong not, sweet empress of my heart,
The merit of true passion,
With thinking that he feels no smart,
That sues for no compassion;

Since, if my plaints serve not to approve
The conquest of thy beauty,
It comes not from defect of love,
But from excess of duty.

For, knowing that I sue to serve
A saint of such perfection,
As all desire, but none deserve,
A place in her affection,

I rather choose to want relief
Than venture the revealing;
Where glory recommends the grief,
Despair distrusts the healing.

Thus those desires that aim too high
For any mortal lover,
When reason cannot make them die,
Discretion doth them cover.

Yet, when discretion doth bereave
The plaints that they should utter,
Then thy discretion may perceive
That silence is a suitor.

Silence in love bewrays more woe
Than words, though ne'er so witty:
A beggar that is dumb, you know,
May challenge double pity.

Then wrong not, dearest to my heart,
My true, though secret, passion:
He smarteth most that hides his smart,
And sues for no compassion.

Re: Do You Have a Valentine?

posted at February 14, 2012 12:09 PM EST
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First: February 14, 2012
Last: February 14, 2012
Thanks for sharing that.  It's beautiful, yet somehow depressing for those of us who haven't had a Valintine for a long, long time!

Re: Do You Have a Valentine?

posted at March 19, 2013 9:19 PM EDT
Posts: 15
First: February 4, 2013
Last: March 19, 2013
I so sad, depressing.....brings more sadness for women like me who has had no valentine for eons...

TO PICK MYSELF UP SINCE I LOVE ME, I have started planning a trip to the spa, going shopping for a piece of jewelry, taking a perfumy bubble bath, planning/preparing a steak dinner with wine ( no restaurant because all the couples cooing would be depressing), dressing up and  listening to smooth jazz while watching a new movie. Believe it or not, I feel great having done this the past seeral years. The anticipation brings excitement and the end the day brings fulfillment!I thank God and love myself!Kiss

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