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Grand children cut off from grandparents due to 'generational curse'
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My research resulted in finding out millions of families are affected by this "Generation Curse" aka the mother-in-law controlling the adult married daughter's life. The first thing to go is the son-
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Grand children cut off from grandparents due to 'generational curse'

posted at September 20, 2011 11:18 AM EDT
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First: September 20, 2011
Last: October 14, 2011

My research resulted in finding out millions of families are affected by this "Generation Curse" aka the mother-in-law controlling the adult married daughter's life. The first thing to go is the son-in-law's family and friends completly cut off from their son's and grandchildren's life. Any one would like to coment on this subject?

'generational curse'- definition RE: Grand children cut off from grandparents

posted at September 20, 2011 11:58 AM EDT
Posts: 3
First: September 20, 2011
Last: October 14, 2011

Generational curse means( in this case), a mother controls and brain washes her daughter from as little as two years old,  and continues on to her adulthood as late as in the forties, after she got married, and have children. That daughter continues this with her own daughter and the pattern continues for generations.  

One of the characteristics is the daughter’s mother want this to be a secret from the son-in-law’s family, for that the daughter is trained to lie constantly. The mother will go as far as accusing the disowned grandparents may abduct them and hurt them and take them to another country etc. All means of communication is completely cut off. These sons are very smart and extremly successful at their carrier as doctors, lawyers and PhDs etc. Some how they are brainwashed to a point that they just comply with the mother-in-law. Most of the time they are very religious to a point that they know the bible by heart and they often quote the bible verse: “once you got married they are joined as one” etc, However, nowhere in the bible it says the son-in-law have to abandon his family and disown them and cut them off from visiting the grand children.  

It is a manmade problem, so it could be resolved with family psychotherapy however, since there is no communication from the son’s part, there is no way it can be accomplished. Clergy is on their side as well.Grandparents have no legal rights.

 Any thoughts on this subject?

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