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Does Age Difference Really Matter?

True love is a treasure, but it doesn't always occur when — or with whom — we thought it would

En español | You've fallen for someone 20 years younger, and he/she for you. Friends say you're "infatuated" — why can't they see you're in love? They may impugn the motives of the younger person ("Gold digger!"), or imply that it's all about sex ("You sly devil, you!"), or warn you that unless this is a fling you'll wind up "lonely, poor or both." … Back to Article

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