YOU START OUT WITH ALL THESE FANTASIES ABOUT WHAT YOUR LIFE IS GOING TO BE LIKE AND WHERE YOU ARE GOING TO LIVE AND THEN YOU GET MARRIED AND ALLTHAT FLIES OUT THE WINDOW! EVERYTIME YOU MAKE A PLAN IT GETS CHANGED OR FALLS THROUGH SO AFTER AWHILE YOU WONDER "WHAT'S THE USE". WELL I FINALLY FIGURED OUT THAT LIFE IS NOT SOMETHING YOU CAN SCHEDULE OR PLAN, YOU HAVE TO JUST LET IT HAPPEN AND ENJOY THE RIDE! THINK ABOUT ALL THE LITTLE UNPLANNED DAY TRIPS YOU'VE EVER TAKEN AND ENDED UP IN A PLACE YOU'VE NEVER BEEN BEFORE, SEEING NEW THINGS AND EXPERIENCING A LITTLE MOM AND POP DINER OR ROADSIDE CAFE, OR A SMALL OUT OF THE WAY ANTIQUE SHOP YOU DIDN'T KNOW EXISTED. MAYBE YOU EVEN MET SOME REALLY NICE PEOPLE AND HAD AN INTERESTING CONVERSATION. SO, NEXT TIME MAKE YOUR PLANS AND THEN TRY NOT TO STICK TO EVERY LITTLE DETAIL AND SEE IF IT'S NOT JUST A LITTLE MORE FUN AND ADVENTUROUS. LIFE CAN BE A TRIP!