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New Ringgold, Pennsylvania
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Sharon Hill elementry jr & Senor high school
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worked in several nursing homes and private duty.
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Sharon hill,Pa
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Things I have leaned about My Mother

 Saturday May 31st, 2008 

When you learn things about my Mother !

 

When you move back with your mother and offer to pay her 200.00 a month, and go back and forth to your daughters house ,My daughter  wants you to move in with her family and not have to pay money for staying there just for your own food. My mother flips the H_ _ _ out on ya what would you do? I certainly got upset when I realized that I was  just the money bag for things needed extra. She blows money like crazy on things that she really doesn't need.

When my kids were growing up and she went shopping. She would buy things for my kids I always ended up paying for the things she would buy.So I guess things will never change with her.Already my oldest daughter wishes she could move out and away from her.

Cappy says:
Thanks for sharing, Queen
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I have had experiences that may be similar as well, and do understand
Posted: July 3, 2008 9:29AM EDT
bviaud says:
Hi Queen,

I'm sorry those things happened to you, and I can remember when I would get so very angry with my mom as well. She's no longer with us, and I do miss her with all my heart. Still time... brings about change. Most of what I thought was wrong (in my situation) was because of a lack of understanding -- or even knowledge on my part. Whether I was right or wrong is of no consequence for me today, especially since I can never get that time back. I choose to remember the very good times she and I shared. Funny though, my children have often felt the same way about me. Perhaps when I'm gone someone will express this same sentiment to them, so that they will understand what's most important to us in this life. Sometimes we tend to win the battle----but lose the war!

God Bless,

Barbara
Posted: May 31, 2008 11:11PM EDT
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