I commented on this video piece, but can i post it on my own journal...and reference it in a post?
http://beta.aarp.org/community/Amy/video/AARP_Member_Caregiving_St/340
This woman went through so much with her cancer, and she's amazingly upbeat. She is totally aware of the value of her mother, her caregiver, had on her recovery. This is a cool story -- of course we think of parents as caregivers at the beginning of life, but in the second half of life we assume that the child is the caregiver -- and this story reverses the expectation!