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Name: Phaedrus
Birthday: November 2
Gender: Male
Status: Widowed
Location:
Dowisetrepl****, Florida
United States
School:

I am proud to say
I attended more schools
than the number of
hometowns (listed below)
and completed ALL
required work.
Work:
My work history?
Hummm..
Well the ones I remember are...

Hebrew slave boy turn
Adapted Egyptian Royalty to
Hebrew Liberator
Moses
~13th century~

King of Macedonia
Alexander the Great
~356 BC to 323 BC~

Jewish Prophet
John the Baptist
~2 Mo. BC to 37 AD~
(explains my need
to be near water)


Holy Father
Pope Benedict XIV
~ 1740 to 1758~

French Emperor
Napoleon Bonaparte
~1769 to 1821 ~

Russian Musical Composer
Pyotr Ilich Tchaikovsky
~1840 to 1893~

US Army General
George S. Patton, Jr.
~1885 to 1945~

Various insignificant jobs
~1948 to Present~
And currently..
Pierce Brosnan Lookalike
and
Senior Managing Partner
Crystal Blue Solutions, llc

Hometown(s):
Cincinnati, Oh
Rockdale, In
Northeast, Pa
Deckards, Pa
Cochranton, Pa
Rixford, Pa
Duke Center, Pa
Bradford, Pa
Pittsburgh, Pa
Parris Island, SC
Jacksonville, NC
Honolulu, Hi
Washington, DC
Djakarta, Indonesia
Hong Kong, BCC
Virginia Beach, Va
Miami, Fl (32 years)
Temple Terrace, Fl
I am now in exile in
Dowisetrepla, Fl

Quote:
LIFE'S JOURNEY IS
NOT TO ARRIVE AT
THE GRAVE SAFELY
IN A WELL PRESERVED BODY,
BUT RATHER TO
SKID IN SIDEWAYS,
TOTALLY WORN OUT,
SHOUTING'...HOLY SHIT...
WHAT A RIDE!"

Come Dance With Me!

 

  joshpartydownsized.jpg picture by jolexa

 

No, the little girl in the picture is not my Granddaughter. 

 

Last summer I attended a “50’s style” theme party.  Okay, I do understand that my jeans are too baggy and I don’t have enough hair to slick back but that’s beside the point.  This little girl was with the family at the table next to my date and me.  She is the adopted daughter of the hostess of the party.  As the music began to play the little girl would rush over, take my hand and without saying anything, walk me to the dance floor and just start dancing.  I can vividly remember the smile on her little angelic face.  0ccasionally she would become preoccupied with something going on at your table and I would be able to dance with my date. 

 

At the end of the evening the hostess profusely thanked me for being so patient with her.  She went on to tell me I was the first man she had ever not been terrified of.  She had told my date a story earlier in the evening and assumed my date had already told me.  You see, the reason why this little girl was terrified of men and had been adopted by the hostess was the little girl had been brutally sexually molested for the previous two years by a family member.  She had been in the court system for nine months before she was released to the lady.  This lady eight years prior adopted a ten year old little girl and that girl had just received a full scholarship to a prestigous university. 

 

I’m glad I didn’t know about these circumstances until the end of the evening.  At least I had the enjoyment of the dances without having those thought running through my head.  I can’t help but believe that had she BEEN my granddaughter she would not have suffered during the very beginning of the short life she had lived up to this point.   If you are a praying person, please pray for this little girl.  And then pray for all the other children in the world who might be living this type of nightmare.

 

It is believed that today (July 11th) is her birthday. Happy Birthday, Christie!!  Any many many more!    

 

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Sharlet says:
This is an incredibly tender story. Thank you for sharing it and I think you are an incredibly caring person! Yes, I'll pray. And I'll pray often. God Bless You. ~ Sharlet
Posted: July 31, 2008 10:51PM EDT
dillieg says:
GOD BLESS YOU! PRAYERS WILL BE SAID FOR THAT LITTLE ANGEL! GOD BLESS YOU FOR ADDING THIS JOURNAL!
Posted: July 13, 2008 2:53PM EDT
brdmommy says:
That is such a sweet story John, and Christie is one brave little girl...she saw the tenderness in your heart for children, and in return she received the wonderful gift from you, the goodness of your heart, and someone she could trust, no questions asked!! Maybe that time will be a new beginning for her. I can see that she felt completely comfortable with you in that picture...but then, maybe you are the "grandpa" she never had!!!
Thanks for sharing this great story...you truly are a giving person!!!
Happy Birthday to Christie too!!! And lots of prayers said in her honor!
brdmommy
Posted: July 12, 2008 3:26AM EDT
jcofla says:
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Thank you, PenniM2, for your very kinds comment to my Journal. Stop by anytime.
~!~
John



Posted: July 11, 2008 12:27PM EDT
PenniM2 says:
How wonderful! Christie must have sensed the kindness in you. I'll say a prayer. Have a wonderful day!
Posted: July 11, 2008 12:13PM EDT
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