well i was so fat when i was young i was called many names..as i grew older i became a weight lifter..i had a great body.but then i started working..i lost weight but never could find a girlfriend..i been single all my life, i don,t date much.i go to the movies fishing casinos.or day trips by bus..now iam 57 i hope to meet someone to share life with.its hard when your alone...mike