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Ethics & Today's Society
Even 25 years ago, people had a strong sense of ethics & civility, that often seem lacking today. Some people relate ethics with religion, and resist ethical codes for that reason. Let's talk about specific instances & social generalities .. what can we do to improve things? . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . To join, you must have at least a state location showing publicly in your Profile
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ASTRAEA said:
on October 4, 2009 05:57 PM ET

Is it me, or do people seem not to want to apologize for their "little mistakes" these days? Or going further, do they not think something erroneous they've repeated is "their" mistake?

During the course of a week, I probably get a handful of e-mails with controvertial accusations about the government large corporations, and/or public figures. I always check them out, before either believing them or passing them on to anyone else. Then if I find them to be untrue, I'll let the person know who sent it to me, and leave it up to them to pass the word on forwards and backwards.

Sometimes friends will say that it was passed on dozens of times before it got to them, they don't have time to check things out, or tell me if I don't like it to just delete the e-mail .. but that's not acknowledging or apologizing for continuing the cycle of ethical damage .. is it?!

To draw a parallel, Mary calls you to say that she's heard from "a friend" that he saw Steve in a fancy restaurant with a woman not his wife. And just based on that, Mary goes into a whole scenerio about Steve being a cheater & their marriage being in the toilet. The next day, you find out that it was a business lunch, and the woman is the owner of a business that's now Steve's client. You call Mary & tell her the background .. do you think in a personal situation like this, Mary would dare say that because so many people repeated the rumor of Steve's alleged infidelity .. it was OK for her to do it too? Or that she was too busy to check it out, before repeating it to other people? Or that she didn't think it was necessary to apologize for repeating an unconfirmed & damaging story like that? NO!

So why do people think it is OK to do that with corporations, organizations & public figures we don't personally know?

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on October 4, 2009 06:31 PM ET

I don't think it's a matter of ethics. Some people forward things because the content of the emails may be a big concern or at least something to think about whether it is true or not. Now whether or not it should be continued on the email trail...that's up to the receiver. I find too many other things to be concerned about more than emails.

 

On your scenario about the infidelity...I would never repeat something like that. I would classify something like that gossip.