I met a gentleman via one of the online meetups. First of all the picture was aged. I am still trying to figure out when it was taken. Anyway the gentleman lied about his age, and from our conversations I would guess that he is about 9-10 years older. When I first met him I was quite surprised. Larger frame and I would say questionable health. He did inform me of his various health issues. We met for a brief while and I thought we could continue as friends. He is retired but still serves as a consultant. He has, in a short period of time, confessed his love for me and even suggested that we move in together. Recently he even asked for marriage. Now I have heard of fast forward, but this is light speed. It is more like an obsession. I am not saying that this is a relationship gone bad but it sends up a red flag as to the potential. Now I am wondering how to share this news with him as I think closure is deserved.