
There is only one rule for writing memoir: You have to be honest. There are no templates, no blueprints, no other instructions. Unfortunately, this doesn't make it any easier. Here we will discuss with each other the difficult but exhilarating process of writing memoir—the worries we have, the obstacles we face, both real and imagined, and the pleasures of digging deep to find the story. There will be new assignments every month to jog memories loose, and to help banish self-consciousness, the scourge of all writers. I hope we will discover that the process of writing memoir is as valuable and important as the finished thing because of what we learn along the way. I hope we will share our concerns and our work with each other.
I will jump in and out of the discussions at least once a month. Given my limited availability online, I'm not always able to respond to personal messages. But I look forward to interacting with you all in this creative workshop of ours. Start writing.
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ltetkow said:
on August 10, 2009 12:38 PM ET
How Papa met Mama |
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Thank you for your inquiry regarding my book. I have already posted two excerpts to the memoir group and received many kind remarks. It is essentially a chronicle of my wife from the time she was diagnosed with breast cancer (9/25/98) until she died (6/4/03) with many flashbacks to inform the reader of who she was and the life we had together. It is entitled, "It Was a Privilege to Care for Her." I am waiting patiently for Trafford Publishing Co. to tell me it is now in print.
Very nice to got your appreciative response. Yes, I am one of many, many children of immigrants, first generation Americans, and know of amazing tales from others. Maybe more details of my personal early life memories have some value. How about more information on your book. Is it published?
I'm a bit late in posting to all of these wonderful memories that are unfolding for me as I read all the notes I had just posted to a file while I finished the book I was writing about my wife. As I read your post it just amazes me the number of persons who can claim to be direct descendents of persons who had come from another country in Europe to make there way in a new country. The writings have the essence of the melting pot which is the US of A.
How wonderful for you to find out how they met - it is great to know and makes the family complete knowing how it all began.
My Mom's always told me of how she and my Dad met - all the littlest details which I hold dear to my heart. The loving relationship they had throughout 50+ years together is what made up my life with them. I'll cherish them always. Now Mom and I are trying to write it all down to pass down to my son and her only grandchild for him to know when all the love began.
Yes, yes, yes! In contrast, it deeply disturbed me to see precious old albums at a garage sale!
Somewhere my wife still has all the letters I wrote to her while I was in the Navy. Her letters back to me are in there somewhere. She used to kid me that she hung on to them to keep me in line. My family and my wife's family hand on to things such as that. I have pictures taken of my parents on their wedding day, and I think my brother has one of my mothers parents taken on their wedding day. Such things are more valuable than gold.
Yes. A few years ago I started typing them slowly into my computer--stopped for some interruption--and need to get back to it. An amazing revelation then was that those two young immigrants were writing back and forth in their new language, English! The oldest one began, "Dear Miss Greenberg.." How differently today's kids text to each other!
Nice.
Ever thought of continuing this topic using the letters as reference?
Jackie