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In a recent survey of over 800 cell phone users aged 50+, cell phone simplicity was found to be the major determining factor when it came to cell phone and plan selection, however, it was also found that about one third of this audience was interested in the use of text messaging.
While many of us don’t have the lightning finger speed and dexterity we once did, texting is becoming one of the leading modes of communication among today’s youth, and can be a valuable skill to learn in order to stay in touch with kids and grandkids. Here are a few tips to help make texting simple and hassle free.
#1 Know the Proper Texting Context
Texts are best used when asking short simple yes/no questions or when trying to gather quick specific bits of info. Texting is not ideal for having long drawn out conversations. For example, “asking your grandkids what time they need to be picked up after soccer practice” is appropriate, while” asking why they got an “F” on their math test” is not.
#2 Use a Cell Phone with Easy-to-Read, Enlarged Buttons and Display Text
Nothing is more aggravating than trying to type a message on a phone that has keys the size of a pin head and a screen with size 8 font. Phones with large buttons and screens make typing and reading texts easier. Here are a few examples of some text friendly phones.
#3 Texting is Informal
Unlike formal letter-writing or professional business correspondences via email, texting is a largely informal method of communication. Traditional words can be shortened for ease of use. A few examples include:
·Because = cause
·At = @
·Two, to, too =2
·You = U
·Are = R
#4 You Can Avoid Texting Jargon
With the possible exception of “LOL” (laughing out loud), there is an entire new vocabulary system that is embraced by many texters. Unless you are willing to spend a great deal of time learning this new vocabulary and will be texting others who are fluent as well, I would not recommend wasting your time.
WB! HRU? WRU@? CB @ 10? TTYL BFF!!
(Welcome Back! How are You? Where are you at? How about a coffee break at 10? Talk to you later best friend)
#5 Keep Texts Short
When texting, keep it brief. For example:
Longer Version:
“Good Morning. I am going to the grocery store and am wondering if you need me to pick you up anything? Also what time should I pick you up from soccer practice?”
Text Version:
"Hi! Going 2 store. Need Anything? What time for after practice pick up?"
While this second message won’t impress any English teachers, it is short, and gets the message across.