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Birthday: June 3
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DURHAM
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i am somewhat left of center. I am the oldest of three children and the mother 4, (2 surviving) and the grandmother of 6. I am single. I am pretty much private, yet thrive on LOVE (energetic and emotional) LAUGHTER AND LIGHT. I also love a good party--good music, good people; but those are very few and far between for me. I'm not really much of a blogger. I embrace a non traditional religion-- I am a Buddhist (Nichiren Shoshu -- an orthodox Japanese sect) and have been for the past 30 years. It is the core my life. It has generated many changes in me that manifested so naturally that, in many cases, I didn't recognize them until they were brought to my attention. I have an eclectic work background, none of which were anything I actively or consciously wanted to do. Today I am a CNA-Certified Nursing Assistant. I am not medically skilled,qualified or certified. I plan to upgrade my skills this year. I do personal home care for the elderly. I primarily provide housekeeping and companionship. It surprisingly activates an intrinsic sense of gratification, satisfaction and humility. As I look backwards, I see a reason for most of my experiences,both personal and professional. In many cases, I've been unconsciously touched or have unconsciously touched others in small ways. As such, I have somehow come to see myself as a conduit -- a pass through for others AND myself to the beginning of some seed of personal change.

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I have a passion for color. Each one is an an aspect of the living energy known as light, and each one has its own significant effect on us, whether we consciously sense it or not. Each room in my small home is a different color. As a child I wanted to be a writer. My dad was studying journalism until my arrival. He let it go in order to do what he needed to do raise a family. However, he left his mark on me. I have not yet found the confidence to actually write. But I decided to speak whatever pressing thought I might have to an appropriate individual. I have been very active in my community on multiple levels; but,for the past 4+ years, I have stepped well into the background.

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Zenobia says:

Wow! You sure have your work cut out for you on this site. I thoroughly agree with you on the issues that are stated here. I know you do not need me to agree but I thought I would at least give you a reason to pause and breathe in the fresh air.
Bigots and racists and angry folks, oh my!
It never ends, huh?
When we buried our daddy, nearly twenty one years ago, he is buried in a cemetery once catered to only by white veterans and upper class white people.
We felt that as a veteran, he deserved to be honored in a place where his race no longer counts. WWll was what it was, and all of the wars that followed have not honored men and women of color as they have others.
I do not do the "political" thing either, nor do I understand all of the terminology, but being in this black skin for over sixty years has taught me a lot.
The good, the bad and the ugly will exist no matter what we do or say.
We might as well speak our piece and get on with life.
I am surprised that somebody didnt jump in with "Well, the Irish were slaves" or "Aren't you people EVER satisfied"? Oh! I am wrong, someone did refer to our lack of appreciation that there are black faces everywhere.
Thanks for hearing me!
Zee
Posted: March 26, 2009 5:10PM EDT
glosglow says:

Hello Zee,
What a surprise to get your message! I was so confused that there were people who decided to leave AARP because they appointed a black man and that HE was going to ONLY do stuff for these "pandered people". What a ridiculous thought that we should be satisfied because there are black faces everywhere! Are they not satisfied that globally they openly or covertly rule, even though they are the racial minority because there are more people of color than non color on this planet? I am SO disillusioned by the ongoing ignorance that we project and perpetrate on this planet. I have been and sometimes find that I still am a part of the problem when I think about "white privilege" or "black on blackstabbing" or negativity or disdain toward anyone because of race or color or culture. I choose to do my best to step back from the blatant hatred and ignorance, whether from our own or others. A rough row to hoe! The only person I can change is me. And through me, my children and through them,their children. Yes, LET'S speak our piece. Rodney King said it so wonderfully well with his "Why can't we ALL just get along?" Yes, why can't we?
Posted: March 27, 2009 8:03PM EDT
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