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Name: Mary
Gender: Female
Status: Single
Ethnicity: Caucasian
Religion: Agnostic
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University of Wisconsin, EXT
Blackhawk Technical College
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Personal Banker
Pizza Delivery Driver
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Associate Editor of a weekly newspaper
freelance writer
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retail clerk
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Hometown(s):
Port Isabel TX
Janesville, WI
Milan, MI
Bellefontaine, OH
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"Nobody made a greater mistake than he who did nothing because he could only do a little." - Edmund Burke

Childhood habits have lasted a lifetime

 

I was born the daughter of a woman with a huge heart and a tiny wallet.  She took in strays of every sort, four legged as well as two.  She taught me that it’s important to give as much as possible, and never expect anything in return.  I’ve worked my entire life to live up to those lofty goals, not always succeeding.  I’m great with the four-legged strays, not always so much with the two-legged.  Today my home is populated by give-aways and strays.  Zoe, my momma cat came to me one weekend when someone was moving into our neighborhood.  She had apparently stowed away in a moving van, and as bad luck would have it, escaped only to find herself in the midst on one of the worst storms in our community’s history.  I found her nearly voiceless from screaming, sitting on the tire of my car.  About a year later she had one kitten - Milo - a deaf, and not overly bright boy with a superb disposition and great gold eyes.  Next came Tim - the runt of a litter that was born among the shoes in my neighbor’s closet.  He looked ill, and Kelli wasn’t sure she could keep him alive.  Well, of course I took him, and soon learned he had numerous congenital defects, all (or any) of which would result in premature death.  That was over 8 years ago.  He’s still chugging along.  Next came Angie - tossed out to fend for herself in a nearby community late in the fall.  She survived all winter eating on the kindness of strangers and out of garbage cans.  The Humane Society tried to capture her all winter long, but she eluded them until nearly spring.  She was bone thin with an immensely dense coat from living out in the weather.  I adopted her and she’s been one of the best critters I’ve ever had.  Finally came Mona - the "problem child" of our household.  Mona was never socialized as a baby.  She was purchased from a puppy mill in the south, brought to Wisconsin without veterinary intervention of any kind.  No shots, no de-worming.  Nothing.  When the neighbor who had her learned his landlady was less than happy he parked her outside with virtually NO human contact other than food (about 1 cup food and 1 cup water - one of those little side-by-side food/water dishes for cats) daily.  She was tied to a porch in mid-summer without little shade, and barely enough water to keep her alive.  Came home one evening and there were 2 neighbor kids standing in front of the steps leading to my house (I have to climb a stairway to get to my porch) and there at the top was a snotty-nosed, worm-bellied rusty red pup.  She bubbled when she breathed, and her sides heaved.  I gave her food and water, and picked her up to comfort her only to realize she was filled with fleas, and looked like she had mange.  She smelled strongly of urine, and I was immediately concerned that she might be heading for kidney failure.  I put her in an old dog kennel for the night, let her rest and eat, and took her back hom in the morning.  The scene was something right out of Tennessee Williams.  The woman who answered the door wore an old fashioned sundress, held a baby, and there were a couple pale-faced kids standing behind her.  I didn’t even know I HAD kids for neighbors.  They never came outside.  I explained everything.  She mutely took the dog, thanked me perfunctorily and shut the door in my face.  A few days later the pup was back with yet another chewed through tether dangling over her bony chest.  Fed, watered, took home.  I gave the neighbor a bottle of flea shampoo and some vitamins for her.  Even said I’d be willing to drive them to the vet if they had transportation issues.  No thanks.  Okey dokey.  Finally they parked her in the back yard that shared a common fenceline.  I’d come home from work, feed and water her over the fence.  They realized I was feeding and watering her so they put her back in the front yard under the stoop.  Finally I went over and told the guy that it was the cops or me.  He puffed up (all 5/6, 125 pounds of him) and ranted and raved and did his "guy" thing.  I said fine.  I’d give him until the weekend.  Saturday he came slinking over and asked if I meant it.  Yup, I said.  A few days later I had a new dog.  First day out we dropped a hefty bundle at the vet and learned she was highly contagious.  She had internal and external parasites, as well as one that can jump to humans Giardia.  I went over to tell the former owner about it and was told to mind my own business.  They’d take care of their own kids.  Right.  So, after 6 months of doctoring and LOTS of patience, Mona was better.  She is a panic biter - with LOTS of socialization issues - but she loves the heck out of me and the other animals.  They’re my four-footed family.  Our house is bursting at the seams.  No more room - but that’s what I said when I got Tim - and kept Milo, and took Angie, and .....   LOL

res1ngs5 says:

A big heart you have. The world needs more like you.

After reading your story I look around and I have 2 birds that were rescued by a friend of mine and I took them in Gracie and George. I now have 2 cats no one wanted Kadie and Rascal. They are such a joy to me.
Posted: January 4, 2009 11:41PM EST
Sharlet says:

I have really enjoyed reading your stories. This one is so special that I couldn't break away until I'd read all the comments! lol Great that you have a place for all your "loved ones" because they really need you. I've rescued a few birds, fed them, nursed them, taught them to fly, and turned them back to nature. Included two seagulls found in the ocean, cockatiel found in the yard, and a large baby dove kicked out of the nest that my kids brought home and had me promise to care for before they could continue on their way to school. ~ Sharlet
Posted: July 27, 2008 9:24PM EDT
keri says:

I have a twenty year old dog - Sadie. A man found her in the desert as a pup.
Apparently she was trying to find food to eat, so even now she checkes out
what I'm giving her to eat. I also have three felines (females) living with me
Callie, Kit-Kit, Corkey. And I feed a stray I haven't been able to catch to bring
home. Before I had the cats I tried to have birds. My first bird, a bugie, fell
in love with Sadie, and wouldn't leave her alone. After 2 week Sadie was
exhausted, so the Mailman's little girl wanted a bird. Well, she got one all right.
The next bird I tried was so jealous of Sadie, he was biting her. I told him
Sadie has been with me for 18 years. I can't have you biting her. So off he
went to another home with other birds. But I still miss botoh of those birds.
When I took Sadie for a walk both of those birds would sneak around my ankles.
The just had to go oon the walks with us...there I was walking my Sadie with
the birds following, chasing, flying off and coming back. The neighbors, oh,
the neighbors, what reactions we had. And I, I was sure those birds would
fly off and never return. But next time i have a bird, there will be no fly off
outside. I just was lucky I didn't loose one of those birds. However, with cats
around, I doubt I'll chance any birds lives in the household. Still, ain't life
grand, we are so lucky to share our lives with these wonderful entities.

Posted: July 9, 2008 12:10PM EDT
HippieChick says:

Patting yourself on the back? My word, you certainly should but you didn't come off sounding that way. Until I got Lady Tui, I had never picked a dog; they picked me. After losing my Sunoco and having six weeks of silence in 1999, I had to find one since one hadn't been sent to me. That's one allergy I will take on hands down. There are way too many tossed and misplaced pets, and the thought of their ultimate fate makes me sick. My Lady Tui was on death row the day I got her, so I have to accept that she at least had what life she got in nine years rather than continue with anger. I had such anger toward our vet of 30 years who didn't tell me last summer that her blood test taken at the time of her teeth cleaning revealed potential kidney problems. I won't be able to get that picture of me leading a camel around the block now; thanks, I needed that one! :)
Posted: July 5, 2008 5:51PM EDT
frelnc says:

I hope it didn't sound like I was patting myself on the back. I'm just a pushover when it comes to animals in distress, and it seems I'm always able to find one somewhere - or they find me. So sorry to hear about your dog. It's never easy to do it, but oftentimes it's the only answer.
Allergic, huh? Well that has to seriously suck. Your little note about a camel had me laughing so hard I thought I'd fall off my chair. I can see it - a girl and her camel doing a lap around the block. LOL
Thanks again. Happy 4th!
M
Posted: July 4, 2008 6:58PM EDT
HippieChick says:

Thank you for being the humanitarian. There are so many furbabies without homes or neglected in their homes. I can barely keep up with my two canine children, but I can't bear to be without two. 1 1 Always = 2. Right now I have a beagle (Lord Kalvin Li Funbottom) and a lab mix (Carmella). I just had to put down a lab mix who was the heart of my life (Lady Tui). It still takes away my breath when I realize she's not here. However, because of Lady Tui's loss, Carmella has a home where canines rule. I'm allergic to most animals but have always had dogs and can't live without them. I tested okay for a camel, but I don't know where I'd put it - LOL!
Posted: July 4, 2008 6:26PM EDT
frelnc says:

I keep hoping they'll get a job. LOL
Posted: June 29, 2008 2:44PM EDT
Lion says:

You obviously have a full time job caring for all the animals. Big heart. Empty wallet. But those are the people I understand best and appreciate the most.
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Lion
Posted: June 29, 2008 11:38AM EDT
frelnc says:

A bird lady! How wonderful. When I was a working journalist I had the pleasure of writing an article about a raptor rehabber who lived nearby - a wonderful woman with a big heart who took in birds who had been burned on power lines, hit by cars, savaged by other animals. You would have loved her. You've taken on an unusual but much needed task. It's a hard one. Birds are so surprisingly delicate and so wonderfully responsive. I still have pictures of some of her birds. Good luck with your projects. I know how much work it can be.
MKT
Posted: June 25, 2008 3:53AM EDT
brdmommy says:

That is such a great story...you have such a wonderfully warm heart for your dogs and those that need someone to love them...reminds me of me and birds!! I am a softy for birds that are abandoned, abused and neglected..or unwanted...my vet says that I spoil them rotten, love them alot....and what more could you ask for..well maybe another bird? LOL!!! brdmommy
Posted: June 25, 2008 2:46AM EDT
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