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Birthday: December 8
Gender: Female
Status: Partnered
Ethnicity: Caucasian
Religion: Christian/Protestant
Location:
Ontario
Canada
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Sometimes You Have To Stand For Something Or You Will Fall For Anything...Good Friends are the rare jewels of life-difficult to find and impossible to replace

My Journals (60)

NEED WASHING??

A little girl had been shopping with her Mom in Target. She must have been 6 years old, this beautiful red haired, freckle faced image of innocence. It was pouring outside. The kind of rain that gushes over the top of rain gutters, so much in a hurry to hit the earth it has no time to flow down the spout. We all stood there under the awning and just inside the door of the Target.

We waited, some patiently, others irritated because nature messed up their hurried day. I am always mesmerized by rainfall. I got lost in the sound and sight of the heavens washing away the dirt and dust of the world. Memories of running, splashing so carefree as a child came pouring in as a welcome reprieve from the worries of my day.

The little voice was so sweet as it broke the hypnotic trance we were all caught in 'Mom let's run through the rain,' she said

'What?' Mom asked.

'Lets run through the rain!' She repeated

'No, honey. We'll wait until it slows down a bit,' Mom replied.

This young child waited about another minute and repeated: 'Mom, let's run through the rain,'

'We'll get soaked if we do,' Mom said.

'No, we won't, Mom. That's not what you said this morning,' the young girl said as she tugged at her Mom's arm.

'This morning? When did I say we could run through the rain and not get wet?'

'Don't you remember? When you were talking to Daddy about his cancer, you said, 'If God can get us through this, he can get us through anything!'

The entire crowd stopped dead silent. I swear you couldn't hear anything but the rain. We all stood silently. No one came or left in the next few minutes.

Mom paused and thought for a moment about what she would say. Now some would laugh it off and scold her for being silly. Some might even ignore what was said. But this was a moment of affirmation in a young child's life. A time when innocent trust can be nurtured so that it will bloom into faith.

'Honey, you are absolutely right. Let's run through the rain. If GOD let's us get wet, well maybe we just needed washing,' Mom said.

Then off they ran. We all stood watching, smiling and laughing as they darted past the cars and yes, through the puddles. They held their shopping bags over their heads just in case. They got soaked. But they were followed by a few who screamed and laughed like children all the way to their cars.

And yes, I did. I ran. I got wet. I needed washing.

Circumstances or people can take away your material possessions, they can take away your money, and they can take away your health. But no one can ever take away your precious memories. So, don't forget to make time and take the opportunities to make memories everyday. To everything there is a season and a time to every purpose under heaven.
I HOPE YOU STILL TAKE THE TIME TO RUN THROUGH THE RAIN.

They say it takes a minute to find a special person, an hour to appreciate them, a day to love them, but then an entire life to forget them. Send this to the people you'll never forget and remember to also send it to the person who sent it to you. It's a short message to let them know that you'll never forget them.

If you don't send it to anyone, it means you're in a hurry.

Take the time to live!!!

Keep in touch with your friends, you never know when you'll need each other -- and don't forget to run in the rain !

Added: November 11, 2009
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In Flanders Fields

by John McCrae, May 1915

In Flanders fields the poppies blow
Between the crosses, row on row,
That mark our place; and in the sky
The larks, still bravely singing, fly
Scarce heard amid the guns below.

We are the Dead. Short days ago
We lived, felt dawn, saw sunset glow,
Loved and were loved, and now we lie
In Flanders fields.

Take up our quarrel with the foe:
To you from failing hands we throw
The torch; be yours to hold it high.
If ye break faith with us who die
We shall not sleep, though poppies grow
In Flanders fields. Lst us not forget.. Rememberance Day! The Eleventh Day,The Eleventh Hour of the Eleventh Month

Added: November 1, 2009
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In Flanders Fields

by John McCrae, May 1915

In Flanders fields the poppies blow
Between the crosses, row on row,
That mark our place; and in the sky
The larks, still bravely singing, fly
Scarce heard amid the guns below.

We are the Dead. Short days ago
We lived, felt dawn, saw sunset glow,
Loved and were loved, and now we lie
In Flanders fields.

Take up our quarrel with the foe:
To you from failing hands we throw
The torch; be yours to hold it high.
If ye break faith with us who die
We shall not sleep, though poppies grow
In Flanders fields. Lst us not forget.. Rememberance Day! The Eleventh Day,The Eleventh Hour of the Eleventh Month

Added: November 1, 2009
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HAPPY HALLOWEEN! This is the one night of the year when it's believed that the veil between the spirit world and that of mere mortals is so thin that ghosts and spirits can walk among us and we can actually see them. For this and other reasons, many people leave food outside their houses in the hopes that it will nourish and nurture the spirits of their dear departed loved ones. Some traditions also say that we should bury apples in the garden to feed the souls of any loved ones who have passed over within the last year. But my favorite Halloween tradition of all (besides grabbing the full size Milky Way from my son's usually huge haul) is to stand before a mirror anytime after sunset in order to make a secret wish. You can do the same. While staring into the mirror, actually try to 'see' the fulfillment of your wish as you silently whisper what it is to the spirits around you. Your wish should come true in some fashion before this same time next year. But just to make sure, put away the gummies and the gumballs and grab another apple. Legend tells us that eating an apple after midnight on All Hallow's Eve will bring bunches of fortune and bushels of luck in the weeks and months to come! Now, there's a treat I'll take anytime!

Added: October 31, 2009
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Maybe So, Maybe Not.
- Ancient Taoist Proverb

One day, a farmer's horse ran away. His neighbors expressed sympathy, "What terrible luck that you lost your horse!" The farmer replied, "Maybe so, maybe not."

A few days later, the horse returned, leading several wild horses. The neighbors shouted, "Your horse has returned, and brought more with him. What great fortune!" The farmer replied, "Maybe so, maybe not."

Later that week, the farmer's son was trying to break one of the wild horses and got thrown to the ground, breaking his leg. The villagers cried, "Your son broke his leg, what a calamity!" The farmer replied, "Maybe so, maybe not."

A few weeks later, soldiers from the national army marched through town, conscripting all the able-bodied young men for the army. They did not take the farmer's son because of his broken leg. Friends shouted, "Your boy is spared, what tremendous luck!" To which the farmer replied, "Maybe so, maybe not."

Moral: Everything is not what it appears to be.
To all My friends Wishing you a Awesome Weekend! Keep safe! keep Smiling ! Hugs!

Added: October 10, 2009
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Added: October 3, 2009
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 Julie Andrews Turns 69, this is hysterical  
 

To commemorate her birthday, actress/vocalist, Julie Andrews made a special appearance at  Manhattan's Radio City Music Hall  for the benefit of the AARP..
  One of the musical numbers she performed was 'My Favourite Things'  from the legendary movie 'Sound Of Music'.   Here are the lyrics she used:
 

 

(Sing It!)  -
If you sing it, its especially hysterical!!!  

Botox and nose drops and needles for knitting,
Walkers and  handrails and new dental fittings,
Bundles of magazines tied up in string,
 These are a few of my favourite things.

Cadillacs and cataracts, hearing aids and glasses,
Polident and Fixodent and false teeth in glasses,
Pacemakers, golf carts and porches with swings,
 These are a few of my favourite things.

When the pipes leak, When the bones creak,
When the knees go bad,
I simply remember my favourite things,
    And then I don't feel so bad.

Hot tea and crumpets and corn pads for bunions,
No spicy hot food or food cooked with onions,
Bathrobes and heating pads and hot meals they bring,
   These are a few of my favourite things.

Back pain, confused brains and no need for sinnin',
Thin bones and fractures and hair that is thinnin',  
And we won't mention our short shrunken frames,
 When we remember our favorite things.

When the joints ache, When the hips break,
    When the eyes grow dim,
Then I remember the great life I've had,
     And then I don't feel so bad.
>>>>>>>>>>>>> > >>>>>>>>>>>> >>>>>>>

(Ms. Andrews received a standing ovation from the crowd
that lasted over four minutes and repeated encores. Please
share Ms. Andrews' clever wit and humour with others who would appreciate it.

Added: October 2, 2009
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A time comes in your life when you finally get…when, in the midst of all your fears and insanity, you stop dead in your tracks and somewhere the voice inside your head cries out…ENOUGH! Enough fighting and crying and blaming and struggling to hold on. Then, like a child quieting down after a tantrum, you blink back your tears and begin to look at the world through new eyes.

This is your awakening.

You realize it’s time to stop hoping and waiting for something to change, or for happiness, safety and security to magically appear over the next horizon.

You realize that in the real world there aren’t always fairy tale endings, and that any guarantee of “happily ever after” must begin with you…and in the process a sense of serenity is born of acceptance.

You awaken to the fact that you are not perfect and that not everyone will always love, appreciate or approve of who or what you are…and that’s OK. They are entitled to their own views and opinions.

You learn the importance of loving and championing yourself…and in the process a sense of new found confidence is born of self-approval.

You stop complaining and blaming other people for the things they did to you – or didn’t do for you – and you learn that the only thing you can really count on is the unexpected.

You learn that people don’t always say what they mean or mean what they say and that not everyone will always be there for you and everything isn’t always about you.

So, you learn to stand on your own and to take care of yourself…and in the process a sense of safety and security is born of self-reliance.

You stop judging and pointing fingers and you begin to accept people as they are and to overlook their shortcomings and human frailties…and in the process a sense of peace and contentment is born of forgiveness.

You learn to open up to new worlds and different points of view. You begin reassessing and redefining who you are and what you really stand for.

You learn the difference between wanting and needing and you begin to discard the doctrines and values you’ve outgrown, or should never have bought into to begin with.

You learn that there is power and glory in creating and contributing and you stop maneuvering through life merely as a “consumer” looking for you next fix.

You learn that principles such as honesty and integrity are not the outdated ideals of a bygone era, but the mortar that holds together the foundation upon which you must build a life.

You learn that you don’t know everything, it’s not your job to save the world and that you can’t teach a pig to sing. You learn the only cross to bear is the one you choose to carry and that martyrs get burned at the stake.

Then you learn about love. You learn to look at relationships as they really are and not as you would have them be. You learn that alone does not mean lonely.

You stop trying to control people, situations and outcomes. You learn to distinguish between guilt and responsibility and the importance of setting boundaries and learning to say NO.

You also stop working so hard at putting your feelings aside, smoothing things over and ignoring your needs.

You learn that your body really is your temple. You begin to care for it and treat it with respect. You begin to eat a balanced diet, drinking more water, and take more time to exercise.

You learn that being tired fuels doubt, fear, and uncertainty and so you take more time to rest. And, just as food fuels the body, laughter fuels our soul. So you take more time to laugh and to play.

You learn that, for the most part, you get in life what you deserve, and that much of life truly is a self-fulfilling prophecy.

You learn that anything worth achieving is worth working for and that wishing for something to happen is different than working toward making it happen.

More importantly, you learn that in order to achieve success you need direction, discipline and perseverance. You learn that no one can do it all alone, and that it’s OK to risk asking for help.

You learn the only thing you must truly fear is fear itself. You learn to step right into and through your fears because you know that whatever happens you can handle it and to give in to fear is to give away the right to live life on your own terms.

You learn to fight for your life and not to squander it living under a cloud of impending doom.

You learn that life isn’t always fair, you don’t always get what you think you deserve and that sometimes bad things happen to unsuspecting, good people…and you learn not to always take it personally.

You learn that nobody’s punishing you and everything isn’t always somebody’s fault. It’s just life happening. You learn to admit when you are wrong and to build bridges instead of walls.

You learn that negative feelings such as anger, envy and resentment must be understood and redirected or they will suffocate the life out of you and poison the universe that surrounds you.

You learn to be thankful and to take comfort in many of the simple things we take for granted, things that millions of people upon the earth can only dream about: a full refrigerator, clean running water, a soft warm bed, a long hot shower.

Then, you begin to take responsibility for yourself by yourself and you make yourself a promise to never betray yourself and to never, ever settle for less than you heart’s desire.

You make it a point to keep smiling, to keep trusting, and to stay open to every wonderful possibility.

You hang a wind chime outside your window so you can listen to the wind.

Finally, with courage in you heart, you take a stand, you take a deep breath, and you begin to design the life you want to live as best as you can.

Added: October 1, 2009
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Wherever You Are~


Home Is Where the Heart Is~

The word "home" has a wide variety of connotations. To some, home is merely a place where basic needs are addressed. To others, home is the foundation from which they draw their strength and tranquility. Still, others view home as a place inexorably linked to family. Yet all these definitions of home imply somewhere we can be ourselves and are totally accepted. There, we feel safe enough to let down our guard, peaceful enough to really relax, and loved enough to want to return day after day. However, these qualities need not be linked to a single space or any space at all. Home is where the heart is and can be the locale you live in, a community you once lived in, or the country where you plan to live someday. Or home can be a feeling you carry inside yourself, wherever you are. 

The process of evolution can require you to undergo transformations that uproot you. Moving from place to place can seem to literally divide you from the foundations you have come to depend on. Since your home is so intimately tied to the memories that define you, you may feel that you are losing a vital part of yourself when you leave behind your previous house, city, state, or country. And as it may take some time before you fashion new memories, you may feel homeless even after settling into your new abode. To carry your home with you, you need only become your own foundation. Doing so is merely a matter of staying grounded and centered, and recognizing that the pleasures you enjoyed in one place will still touch your heart in another if you allow them. 

Your home can be any space or state of being that fulfills you, provided you are at peace with yourself and your surroundings. A person can feel like home to you, as can seasons and activities. If you feel disconnected from what you once thought of as home, your detachment may be a signal that you are ready to move one. Simply put, you will know you have found your home when both your physical environment and energetic surroundings are in harmony with the individual you are within.

Enjoy...Have A Magical Day! Hugs!

 
Added: September 29, 2009
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In honor of 2 more Canadians who lost their lives in the war on terrorism......
 


 
 
 

 
 
 
 
 

 

 

 

"MEET ME IN THE STAIRWELL' 


PLEASE READ TO THE VERY END, IT IS BEAUTIFUL!!! 

  
     
 
  


 
 



 
 


 
 
 


 


 


 


 


 


 


 


 


 


 
 

    
 
 


 
 

'MEET ME IN THE  STAIRWELL'  

 You say you will never forget where you were when 
 you heard the news On September 11, 2001. 
 Neither will I. 
 
 I was on the 110th floor in a smoke filled room 
 with a man who called his wife to say 'Good-Bye.' I 
 held his fingers steady as he dialed. I gave him the 
 peace to say, 'Honey, I am not going to make it, but it 
 is OK..I am ready to go.' 
 
 I was with his wife when he called as she fed 
 breakfast to their children. I held her up as she 
 tried to understand his words and as she realized 
 he wasn't coming home that night. 
 
 I was in the stairwell of the 23rd floor when a 
 woman cried out to Me for help. 'I have been 
 knocking on the door of your heart for 50 years!' I said. 
 'Of course I will show you the way home - only 
 believe in Me now.' 
 
 I was at the base of the building with the Priest 
 ministering to the injured and devastated souls. 
 I took him home to tend to his Flock in Heaven. He 
 heard my voice and answered. 
 
 I was on all four of those planes, in every seat, 
 with every prayer. I was with the crew as they 
 were overtaken. I was in the very hearts of the 
 believers there, comforting and assuring them that their 
 faith has saved them. 
 
 I was in Texas
 , Virginia  , California , Michigan  , Afghanistan  . 
 I was standing next to you when you heard the terrible news. 
 Did you sense Me? 
 
 I want you to know that I saw every face. I knew 
 every name - though not all know Me. Some met Me 
 for the first time on the 86th floor.. 
 
 Some sought Me with their last breath. 
 Some couldn't hear Me calling to them through the 
 smoke and flames; 'Come to Me... This way... Take 
 my hand.' Some chose, for the final time, to ignore Me. 
 But, I was there. 
 
 I did not place you in the Tower that day. You 
 may not know why, but I do. However, if you were 
 there in that explosive moment in time, would you have 
 reached for Me? 
 
 Sept. 11, 2001, was not the end of the journey 
 for you. But someday your journey will end. And I 
 will be there for you as well. Seek Me now while I may 
 be found. Then, at any moment, you know you are 
 'ready to go.' 
 
 I will be in the stairwell of your final moments. 
 
 
God 
During the next 60 seconds, stop whatever you are 
 doing, and take this opportunity. (Literally it 
 is only 1 minute.) All you have to do is the 
 following: 
 
 Stop and think and appreciate God's power 
 in your life, for doing what you know is pleasing to 
 Him. If you are not ashamed to do this, follow the 
 instructions. Jesus said, 'If you are ashamed of Me, I will be 
 ashamed of you before My Father' 
 
 If you are not ashamed, copy and send this message...only 
 if you believe 'Yes, I love my God. He is my 
 fountain of Life and My Savior. He Keeps me going day and 
 night. Without Him, I am no one. But with Him, I can do 
 everything. Christ is my strength.' 
 
 
 

 
 
 
 
Prayer chain for our Military...please don't  break it 
 
THIS NEEDS TO GO AROUND THE USA AND CANADA MANY TIMES SO

 


 
 

 

KEEP IT GOING  


 
 

 


  'MEET ME IN THE STAIRWELL'

Added: September 10, 2009
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