This is what I have to tell myself often after getting laid off. Loyally employed for fifteen years, I didn't see it coming. The most difficult part was being replaced by a younger person just starting out. Later, I discovered it wasn't about my abilities, but more the income I was making.
I didn't realize that losing a job after so long would place me into a grieving situation. I found I had to go through all of the stages of grief: Denial, Anger, Hurt, Resentment, Loneliness, etc. Having finally faced all of these issues honestly, The best result of this loss of employment was the time to sit down and evaluate my life. Checking out where my priorities were. They had become a little out of sequence while I was working. I found the important thing in life is not my job, but rather my family. For years I had neglected them to put work first.
Now, that I know what is really important, I have to decide what I want to do when I grow up. Thank God for the internet. I have been able to do some very constructive searches, helping me outline the steps in finding a new job. I have taken to heart something my favorite NASCAR driver, Carl Edwards, said, "If you have a dream, go after it and don't let anyone tell you it's not possible." So with that in mind, I am trying to figure out what kind of job would I love to have. No longer do I want to work at a place where I count down my time until my day off. I did that for too many years. Rather, I hope for a job where I can't believe the week is over already.
Wish me luck.![]()