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Between
the years 1854-1929 more than 200,000 homeless children left New York
City to find new homes in the West and Southwest. Some children found
loving homes; others did not. I am presenting a letter today and one
each of the following Tuesdays. Being they are extremely hard to come
by, I only have a few.
It was
difficult for me to decide on which letter to post first; a happy one
or one troubling. I decided on the latter to get the attention of you
readers. The letters, in part, were without punctuations, proper
grammar, capitals, etc. and were difficult to decipher. I did not make
all the corrections, just enough so they were legible. I guess the
girl who wrote this letter to be between the ages of twelve to fourteen.
April 27, 1865
Dear Friend
I received your kind letter and was very much pleased to hear from
you. I often think of you Mr. Tracy and would like to see you
very much. I went and had my picture taken and will send one to
you. They are not as good as I expected they would be. They
look like me only the eyes did not take good for they were such a
light blue. I cannot remember how you look. I have forgotten
you Mr. Tracy.
You said it would make you feel sad to hear of anything that I had
done that was not just right. I hope that I never shall do
anything that is not right. There is a great deal said that is
not so. Everyone has their faults and I have mine. It is
very sad to be alone in this world with no mother or father or any one
to look to but strangers but I can look to the Lord Mr. Tracy and he
will take care of me. I am not a Christian but I wish I
was. I often think how happy I should be sometimes. I wish I
were a Christian girl and could die and go to heaven and see my own
mother, but the Lord is letting me live for some good purpose.
It is very pleasant out here, everything is in blossom and smells nice
and this is a pleasant world to live in. How does things look in
the city, anything as they did when you took me by the hand and led me
to …. I should like very much to come to the city and see
how things look but I don’t suppose I ever shall.
Ann lives in Rushville. I have not seen her in quite a
while. There is a little girl that came out just before I did
that lives a little way from me. Her name is Katie. We have
some good talks together about the city. One of the girls that
came out with me has gone back. I don’t think she aught to
(have) gone back. She has more suffering there than she did
here. I never wanted to go back to stay. I would rather live
in the country. I guess you will think I have grown some in my
picture . I will bring my letter to a close.
Yes, she obviously was lonely, surrounded by strangers. Then there were those who found loving homes.
In my trilogy, I didn't dwell on abuse, though there is some. I wrote about how the adoption changed the lives of the children AND THE ADULTS. It is an emotional story about family love and friendships, tragedy, romance, murder and intrigue and tons of humor. It is historical fiction based on facts.
I enjoy the stories from the past. I know some are sad because it appears
to me from my mothers experience, many children were taken in to be used
as 'help.' Yes, she had a roof over her head, but the 'love' just wasn't there.
I hear sadness in this girl because of her loss. I believe she experienced
what many children experience today, lonliness.
You are correct. Siblings were often seperated by adoption and Foster Parents, some never to be seen again. In my trilogy this incident occures. At age 18 they could remain, if agreeable with new parents, or went their own way. We want to keep this little-known corner of U.S. History alive.
My father and some of his siblings that was taken away from a home and placed on an orphanage, in OHIO. About 5 of them. My uncle joined the army at 16 and then my dad. The others were adopted out to different places. My Aunt ended up in Nebraska, and another one stayed in Lima Ohio. My father used to tell me about some of the familys that would take them as foster children. He passed 1973. Born in 1906 / Thanks for sharing these things, with so many folks that have no idea what happened back then to many children. Mary
First of all, a young person doesn't wish to die to see her mother unless she is desperate for something better. She should only miss her mother. Patty was surrounded by strangers and it was unsettling for her. She didn't like her lot in life. What also effected me was her ending "I guess you will think I have grown some in the picture." All children brag about growing, but in her case, it was the only thing she had to be happy about according to her letter. I may be wrong, but that is how I interpreted it.
Also, her wording eminated sadness to me. Not pain as some children went through, but definitely unhappy.
Bob,
Congrats on being on the main page here at AARP. You are so fortunate to have access to such a huge mark on history, and very kind to share these special letters. I was confused that you say this was a sad letter though, I felt in reading it that Patty was not exuberant with regard to her situation who could be after loosing her mother and being up-rooted across the country. I felt a great sadness her at that loss and wishing she could be reunited with her mother however, she seemed to enjoy the country and had a couple friends and seemed to be doing fine. She didn't have any tales regarding abuse of any kind that I have heard stories of so, why did you feel this was so sad of a letter?
No, I don't know of Patty's parents. I'm bound to change the names in the letters.
Besides the Children's Aid Society and a few others, theThe Sisters of Charity sent children away on trains, but only to Catholic families. They had a crib at their front door so a person could place the unwanted baby there, ring the bell and steal off into the night.
Bob,
Congratulations on journal being featured on the home page of AARP. I just read this letter to Victoria (7). I told her about them the other day and we have been waiting for you to post. Thanks for sharing this great piece of history.
Carol
aka: MamaGiraffe